Apparently I was mistaken in thinking that after learning how to use the potty successfully more than 3 months ago, the whole idea of using the potty regularly would become second nature.
Why do I think this way?
I guess the girls just need to have a "reason" to use the potty, and the reason isn't so they don't mess up their pants. They've become complacent and use the potty only when they feel like, peeing in their pants the rest of the time.
The number of accidents has increased considerably in the last couple of weeks, whereas I thought by this time they would be virtually nonexistent. I'm constantly trying new things to motivate them to only go in the potty. Positive reinforcement hasn't been working. They already know we are proud of them for using the potty, so I guess they don't need to hear more praise. So I tried some different tactics...
- If you have an accident, you have to go upstairs and get a new pair of underwear. I thought they would dislike doing this since it interrupted play time, but they don't care.
- If you pee on the floor, you have to help me clean it up. They thought this was so cool and wanted to be the one to spray the Resolve on the floor.
- Since you have been having so many accidents, you can't sit on the couch anymore. OK, not a big deal.
- I had bought these super ugly training pants that are so big and made of uncomfortable plastic so I had Little Pie wear them after her third accident in an hour. She thought they were so cool. Little Bird wanted a pair too.
And then, the Potty Princess crown was born.
| "I stayed dry all day!" |
Lauren loves those huge plastic training pants too! She always chooses them when I ask her to get a pair of big girl pants. hahaha
ReplyDeleteI think motivation is definitely key. I just know that B is physically ready, but for some reason she just doesn't seem motivated to start training. I had been enticing her with a shopping trip to pick out her very own undies. I added to it that we'd have a big celebration when she goes in the potty...a cupcake at a restaurant. She seems excited; her eyes light up when she talks about it, but no cigar just yet.
ReplyDeleteI'll keep the Potty Princess crown in mind for future reference. :) Glad it's working for your girlies!!!